Loneliness

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Kurzgesagt – In a Nutshell

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Everybody feels lonely sometimes. But only few of us are aware how important this feeling was for our ancestors - and that our modern world can turn it into something that really hurts us. Why do we feel this way and what can we do about it?
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'Emotional First Aid' by Guy Winch
www.amazon.com/Emotional-First-Aid-Rejection-Everyday/dp/0142181072/
'Loneliness' by John Cacioppo & William Patrick
www.amazon.com/Loneliness-Human-Nature-Social-Connection/dp/0393335283/
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Kurzgesagt – In a Nutshell
Kurzgesagt – In a Nutshell Hace un día
We designed a poster on this topic as well. You can find it here: standard.tv/collections/in-a-nutshell/products/in-a-nutshell-loneliness-poster
EdgAntoniiiRA1RGG
EdgAntoniiiRA1RGG Hace 3 horas
Thanks for making me more depress than I already was since 2011... rgg 💔😔... FML... ...WHY ARE WE HERE JUST TO SUFFER... ^next video suggestion btw
FirstRisingSouI
FirstRisingSouI Hace 2 horas
But I find most interactions with other people to be horribly boring.
technoshaymin :/
technoshaymin :/ Hace 2 horas
I’m absolutely fine with being lonely tbh
Mike Brown
Mike Brown Hace 2 horas
I have suffered from loneliness and sometimes depression most of my over forty years of adult life. I once heard someone say that my wonderful upbringing inadequately prepared me for the grim reality of real life. There is a lot of truth to that, as it is a very cold, self centered world we now live in. And it has also been said that the only thing worse than being alone is wishing you were. Anyone in a bad marriage or workplace environment knows what that means. I am currently married to a woman who is gone to work thirteen hours a day, seven days a week and refuses to make time for me, and I have no close friends. Loneliness is simply a way of life some people have to accept.
Larose Red
Larose Red Hace 2 horas
there, youtube, I watched it
Sahil Batra
Sahil Batra Hace 2 horas
Now I’m feeling more lonely :(
Sega Sonic Z
Sega Sonic Z Hace 2 horas
Darn i dont know how to talk to people
Rudyson Estanislao
Rudyson Estanislao Hace 2 horas
Thank you,
Caleb S
Caleb S Hace 2 horas
Why did I start crying
MrZazder
MrZazder Hace 2 horas
WTF, i didn't even know i had chronic loneliness. Weird situation.
IamJahleel
IamJahleel Hace 2 horas
I've been alone for 6 years never made any friends an as far as dating I've been alone never had a gf longer than 2 months smh. I just think people are fake tbh.
starlight FIFI
starlight FIFI Hace 2 horas
I havent talked to someone in a month, send help (im joking about the send help)
Ulises Bencosme
Ulises Bencosme Hace 2 horas
Great video
Spamfitters
Spamfitters Hace 2 horas
I much prefer to be alone, quite happy on my own, all I need is my horse
Wafflol
Wafflol Hace 2 horas
Good to see kurzgesagt at #1 on trending instead of another late night talk show or clickbait challenge video.
Cecilia Collins
Cecilia Collins Hace 2 horas
I
Derek hi
Derek hi Hace 2 horas
I don’t know who needs this, but, you are never the only one.
Lourdes Reyes
Lourdes Reyes Hace 2 horas
Thankful for my best friend while watching dis
Arel Kaan Deniz
Arel Kaan Deniz Hace 2 horas
Yeah... ı think ı need this video 😢
Jonathan Hall
Jonathan Hall Hace 2 horas
This video really explains my behavior in middle to high school I use to be a very social person and then something happened that made me push people away It just kept getting worse until I just never left the house anymore I'd go to school then straight home never texting or calling school friends in my mind if they really wanted to talk to me they'd reach out two years out of high school still none of them have I texted them a few times but it would make me very nervous and I just end up retyping and rereading the my messages I think Im living a better life now I definitely feel less lonely but idk how long this can last
Priestofbabylon
Priestofbabylon Hace 2 horas
A lot of this sounds like Asperger's Syndrome.
IDon'twant2BeA SoldierMama
IDon'twant2BeA SoldierMama Hace 2 horas
Wow Damn, I'm depressed as fuck... ;| has been years already But I think I feel a little bit better after seeing this video ;)
DeadlyShadow
DeadlyShadow Hace 2 horas
It really doesn't help when you have a near-complete lack of developed social skills.
Thảo Phạm Thị Thảo
Thảo Phạm Thị Thảo Hace 2 horas
Alone but not lonely. Do you agree with me?
JJ Park
JJ Park Hace 2 horas
I just love being alone. Not lonely at all... at all...
EXOL Forever
EXOL Forever Hace 2 horas
This video made me cry. That might sound weird but this video gave me so many realizations and it was a wake up call for me. I need to stop isolating myself. I need to stop thinking bad about other people and assuming they don't like me. I need to stop making excuses for myself to avoid people. Today I decide to invite a friend to go ice skating. I hope it helps me.
Lord Lynx
Lord Lynx Hace 2 horas
this is one of the longer videos but it still has the same quality and look where that got it, at #1 on trending
Rado
Rado Hace 2 horas
Guess i'll die.
Suha
Suha Hace 2 horas
ummm.....maybe some ppl are fine with not making very strong connections with ppl. Everyone's different, and there are a lot of ppl out there who dont need external ppl around them to make them feel- happy, validated or content in life....just saying.
Suha
Suha Hace 2 horas
u are absolutely right suha.
Rob Rash
Rob Rash Hace 2 horas
Who are the nut jobs thumbs downing this?
Dramox
Dramox Hace 2 horas
Im 19 and still a virgin
Dark Coffee Bean
Dark Coffee Bean Hace 2 horas
Funny how a team of people I don't even know can create a video explaining my exact situation
I loathe people who're still talking after I say hi
I loathe people who're still talking after I say hi Hace 2 horas
Mankind is evil, you can't open up to people and not expect to get shot, but when you do and you bounce back what else is left to experience. try again and fail harder?.... you might get lucky and succeed, but how long would it last?, the paranoia of a scorn that once healed being opened up again. You may call it fear, I'd call it planning ahead. To each his own tho, I learned a lot from this vid but, I'd rather carry my own weight.
My logic is a force to be reckoned with.
My logic is a force to be reckoned with. Hace 2 horas
Ther is no professional help that helps. In Scotland at least, it's so unhelpful that I'm not surprised that suicide is what people resort too, I'm sick of people who don't know what they are talking about saying "get help".
nivaska619
nivaska619 Hace 2 horas
I'm so lonely broken angel
MagicianBall
MagicianBall Hace 2 horas
I would so love to have more friends in truth, but for me personally it’s just hard. Most of my friends, very similar like what you said in this video, are too busy to ever hang out with me on weekends, and never even text me back much through smartphone, if I’m ever gonna get a text from a friend, I’m always the one who would have do the text first, and it’s never my friends who text me, or ask me for a hangout first. I have a decent amount of common interests with my friends, in terms of TV shows and video games and such, but the amount of common interests I have are not massively big, it’s like only decent at max. I just wish I had more friends in which I can talk to, every day! Not just talk for a little bit, and then have to wait a LOOONG time so I can talk to them again. I just want good friends who I can commonly talk to at school and home, and friends who would be there for me when I’m in trouble. Friends who I have great common interests, and friends who wouldn’t betray or stab me in the back. Funny how there are literally billions of people on Earth, and that doesn’t even help, proves how much real life can suck at times lol. This comment is probably gonna sound silly, but, would be there anybody here interested in being my friend, even just for a little bit? I would adore to tell about myself and my interests. This comment will probably just get lost in the massive sea of comments of this video, but if any person finds and replies to this comment, i simply thank you
HappiestSadGuy
HappiestSadGuy Hace 2 horas
:(
Louis Bradbury
Louis Bradbury Hace 2 horas
This Is Shamefully Relatable
Danielle Rogers
Danielle Rogers Hace 3 horas
damn. #1 on trending.
UniText
UniText Hace 3 horas
*Realizes You Can Die From Loneliness* Calls Friends Over
Lord Lynx
Lord Lynx Hace 3 horas
#1 on trending wow
Hirogan berries
Hirogan berries Hace 3 horas
Indeed...
Zachary Tischer
Zachary Tischer Hace 3 horas
This is so sad alexa play despacito
Badso44
Badso44 Hace 3 horas
#3 on trending. Damn.....
Random Bae
Random Bae Hace 3 horas
I was feeling down today and was listening sad songs and getting sadder and this vids pops up on my feed. God is this a sign from you that I should stay happy and not care about people who doesn't care about me? message received.
Can’t Do shit
Can’t Do shit Hace 3 horas
Does anyone else still feel lonely in a room full of friends? I do
laos 09
laos 09 Hace 3 horas
I wanna find someone to play D&D!!!
Robert V
Robert V Hace 3 horas
Never trust edited comments.
Billy Tziatas
Billy Tziatas Hace 3 horas
Extremely interesting video and take on loneliness!
Sahil Batra
Sahil Batra Hace 3 horas
I’m alone not lonely !
Dramox
Dramox Hace 3 horas
I dont have a real friend to hangout with. Im better than all my friends in games, so they avoid playing with me
Christian T. Grave
Christian T. Grave Hace 3 horas
This has to be my favorite channel on ESwomen. Period.
Paleo Mikey
Paleo Mikey Hace 3 horas
THIS IS LITERALLY #1 on trending nice job dude keep it up
SickPranks 58
SickPranks 58 Hace 3 horas
Just play video games lol
Tom Yang
Tom Yang Hace 3 horas
When you’re alone with your thoughts, you get an idea of what your thoughts actually are. This should give you the momentum to make a change!
Ester
Ester Hace 3 horas
wow i’ve always appreciated the videos from Kurzgesagt, but this one specially hit close home. it’s a very important topic to talk about, so i’m very thankful for the spread of awareness!
ك ر
ك ر Hace 3 horas
Haha losers
octo pi
octo pi Hace 3 horas
Guys I just farted during this video and it stinks really bad. I was hoping it would go away, but I think it just got trapped in the blanket.
XxFire starXx
XxFire starXx Hace 3 horas
the title of this video is my life right there lol
Umar Khan
Umar Khan Hace 3 horas
Oh thank you very much i feel lonely theses days and now u gave me courage to survive♥
Sonny Sunglasses
Sonny Sunglasses Hace 3 horas
This is how many friends you have 👇
kyuuh
kyuuh Hace 3 horas
Why tf u do that body
ArticSingWolf S
ArticSingWolf S Hace 3 horas
#1 on trending
Craftwarrior269
Craftwarrior269 Hace 3 horas
Congrats on 1 on trending
Frasski
Frasski Hace 3 horas
Bruh be happy that you even have friends. Some of us don't even have those.
ArticSingWolf S
ArticSingWolf S Hace 3 horas
#1 on trending
Dark Coffee Bean
Dark Coffee Bean Hace 3 horas
Best. Channel. Ever.
Random AnimeFan
Random AnimeFan Hace 3 horas
All of us that are commenting are lonely. We all want recognition.
Generic Name
Generic Name Hace 3 horas
You know what's worse than being lonely, alone and depressed? Being lonely, alone and depressed in a third world country where psychiatric help can only be afford by the 1%.
Night
Night Hace 3 horas
4:36 Bold of you to assume...
BRESHEET
BRESHEET Hace 3 horas
"connected"
RadioactivZ
RadioactivZ Hace 3 horas
#1 trending
Winny Winson
Winny Winson Hace 3 horas
I’ve rarely go out with friends outside or after school and I don’t get experience from it so I don’t know how to hang out with them at those times and I stay in education.
Brendt Maleva
Brendt Maleva Hace 3 horas
Sub 2 PewDiePie
I N
I N Hace 3 horas
I play Pokemon go everyday to avoid crippling depression.
Bertold Gerry
Bertold Gerry Hace 3 horas
Love this one 🤘🤘🤘
모리김
모리김 Hace 3 horas
This video is very useful. THANK YOU
Luis Ocampo
Luis Ocampo Hace 3 horas
I went through depression for 2 years. Shittiest moment in my life and I'm barely 22. I'm still lonely but I'm working on it. Its just hard sometimes
Adnan
Adnan Hace 3 horas
thank you
FINX
FINX Hace 3 horas
*BRAKING NEWS: LONELIENESS DROPS TO 0%
R.K. Rowe
R.K. Rowe Hace 3 horas
I just want a hug
Sir Pistachio
Sir Pistachio Hace 3 horas
Bruh, you won’t feel lonely at all if you adopt a pet!
80Loke
80Loke Hace 3 horas
"if you feel lonley, then you are lonley" thats a good quote
ColdGaming PS4
ColdGaming PS4 Hace 3 horas
I relate to all of this
Cullen Snow
Cullen Snow Hace 3 horas
Tfw this is number 1 on trending. So many lonely people.
narudi18
narudi18 Hace 3 horas
A lot of people in the comment section are missing the video’s point Being alone is different from feeling lonely. You can be alone and not feel lonely and you can be surrounded by people you love and feel lonely The video is about what is loneliness and how to escape it
The guide
The guide Hace 3 horas
the problem is nowadays it's not animal's it's other humans so there's the bigest plothole so yea
Mahan Hoseini
Mahan Hoseini Hace 3 horas
what if i like to be lonely and still having that empty hole in my chest
300 subscribers without any videos
300 subscribers without any videos Hace 3 horas
*#1 on trending says a lot*
MyLeftShoe
MyLeftShoe Hace 3 horas
I feel like I'm slowly isolating because I'm afraid of bothering my friends
diovi rae tumampos
diovi rae tumampos Hace 3 horas
It says a lot about our society that this is the #1 trending video in yt
Pygmy Puff
Pygmy Puff Hace 3 horas
I've been alone for 20 years and I still look like I'm 16. What you talking about saying that it's gonna make me age faster? But yeah, I am often very lonely and I believe I'm depressed. Honestly, I've gotten used to it and I agree when others complain about people being "fake" today. I totally agree because they just pretend and I've always experienced people leaving me after being around them for a day.
Get out of my way
Get out of my way Hace 3 horas
Are you lonely or alone? There a difference
D K
D K Hace 3 horas
Except for the few people in the world that I like, being around most people makes me want to isolate myself. I feel burdened by and even despise interaction of all kinds w most people. Whether I’m awkward and just can’t be myself around them, or do feel comfortable, the distaste for social interaction remains the same. Therefore I feel happier and less stressed when isolated. Why?
Average Jo3
Average Jo3 Hace 3 horas
Feeling lonely bc my friends are busy being lonely...
Portia Li
Portia Li Hace 3 horas
The fact that this is #1 on trending really says a lot
alma diosa
alma diosa Hace 3 horas
1 en tendencias nanaaa Posta?
Black Rhino
Black Rhino Hace 3 horas
No this is Patrick
Lonely Driver
Lonely Driver Hace 3 horas
Thanks ESwomen for yet again reminding me of how lonely I am
Luis Osorio
Luis Osorio Hace 3 horas
I’ve been hurt so many times by people I’ve went all out for . It’s really hard for me to meet new people.. I’m so closed I don’t want to get hurt ..I hate being so lonely 😔
Ei Bouss?
Ei Bouss? Hace 3 horas
Idk about loners, but I'm surely am a stoner
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